A Friday Reflection: The Circle of Life

Jan

2

2009

Filed in: Life | Wild Ramblings | Writing
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I am really enjoying your manuscript. How do you ever think of such unusual things and make them so interesting? I hope to finish reading and return it to you when you come.
I am so proud of you.

This note arrived Christmas week, on a card from my first grade teacher. When I met with her during Thanksgiving, I hadn’t seen Mrs. Camp since 1964, when I left her class for the summer.

This woman – this teacher – had been vital in my becoming a writer. Her impact on me has lasted a lifetime, and involves such mundane things as the position of my hand when I write, as well as lifelong memories. It was Mrs. Camp who wisely shepherded a cluster of terrified six year olds through the assassination of John F. Kennedy so that we didn’t feel the chaos the rest of the world did.

When my mother, who recently moved into an assisted living facility, blithely announced that Mrs. Camp lived down the hall from her, I felt a grin cross God’s face. For I had already turned in the dedication to The Taking of Carly Bradford, which focuses on the teachers who have had the most influence on my life as a writer.

Mrs. Camp was first on the list.

If you’re a teacher, never doubt the potential you have for changing a life. If you’re a parent, pay attention to what your kids are saying about their teachers. Although we live in a time when stories about teachers taking advantage of students are so common they’ve become fodder for late night comics, these creatures are, thankfully, a tiny minority. Help your kids find the best teachers out there.

Good teachers are priceless.

When I saw Mrs. Camp at Christmas, she patted my arm and said, “I still can’t get Carly out of my mind.”

I’m glad, Mrs. Camp, I could return the favor, even if it did take 44 years.

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On January 3rd, 2009 at 6:15 pm, Kimmy Lane said:

I’m glad that you got to see her again. I agree with you. Teachers seem to remember more about you than you do them and kids remember things that always stay with them wether its big or small.
Happy New Year!!!


On January 3rd, 2009 at 10:19 pm, Jen Stephens said:

Thank you for this post, Ramona! What a wonderful story of how life brought you back around to your 1st grade teacher! I often look at the eight-year-olds in my classroom and wonder what they will be doing 10, 20, 30 years down the road. And I wonder if they will think of me with the fondness that you have for Mrs. Camp. I wonder what things that I say will stick in their brains. It’s a BIG responsibility – sometimes overwhelming. I never realized that until Ali started school and I saw what a difference a teacher could make in MY child’s life. Anyway, this was a very special post. Thanks again!


On January 4th, 2009 at 7:26 pm, Steve Simms said:

This post is very timely for me. My daughter is a junior at St. Cecilia Academy in Nashville and is spending this coming week as an intern at Crieve Hall Elementary School in Nashville. She thinks she wants to be a teacher. How true it is: “Good teachers are priceless.”



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